On a serious note, I would like to thank the two individuals who left comments on that post.
Have a great weekend!
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When we arrived at the Conservatory last night Lew Rubens was already getting set up. While he spoke with MY LOVE about what they would be doing I did my best to troubleshoot a couple of minor problems with the sound system. Soon the dungeon was filled with music and the guests were coming in and making themselves comfortable. The original plan had been for Lew to just use MY LOVE as his model for the evening but this was changed at the last moment. She was to be the first (and best!) of three.
I’m sure as hell not going to be able to describe what the suspension looked like. Perhaps before she was lifted off her feet MY LOVE might have looked like a marionette, but once up she had some amazing freedom of movement. Upside down, with her ass in the air seemed to be her main position, but I don’t know if that was so much from personal choice as her inability to do much about it. As I said, she had a lot of freedom to move but was still very limited on how much control she could maintain. The moving of one limb meant the shifting of weight to another limb and before you know it she was upside down and spinning again. I stepped away from the stereo a couple of times to assist Lew and take advantage of her vulnerability. I had the pleasure of spanking and lightly abusing her in front of everyone while she semi-helplessly twisted and turned, crying out in pain and light-hearted frustration.
The suspension was a great success. I think the crowd definitely enjoyed what they saw. Lew is very talented and MY LOVE is always energetic. They worked well together. Pushing the button on the hoist, he lowered her back to the ground and we set about getting her untied. This would take some time, during which the majority of the crowd dispersed to other parts of the dungeon. Later Lew would suspend a lady in a different room using a big roll of blue-green plastic wrap. It was like watching a smiling spider weave a very misshapen web around a willing fly. Unfortunately, this was done in one of the smaller rooms so anyone that wanted to watch kind of had to crowd around the entrance to it. I only caught glimpses of what he was doing as I passed by but it looked magnificent.
Lew’s final piece was to strap yet another lovely lady to his body in such a way that, were they both naked, she would be in the perfect position at all times to, well, you know. He sat on a chair and had the woman sit on his lap, facing him. With sturdy pink ribbon he bound her to him so that when he stood she was pretty much still in his “lap”. We could all see the obvious and practical use for this. Personally, I think the suspension he did with MY LOVE was the best one, but I am biased. All three of them were fantastic, and we’ve all come to expect that from Lew Rubens. He really seemed to have a good time, and was appreciative of my efforts regarding the music. It wasn’t “typical”, according to him, and that is definitely one of the things I was going for. MY LOVE said it made a huge difference to her, and how much she enjoyed herself. Nobody wound up dancing – it just wasn’t that kind of atmosphere – but it was gratifying to see a few people moving and swaying to what I had selected. That was enough for me.
There were a few invitations to join people for drinks afterwards, but the honest truth is, we were tired and hungry. MY LOVE changed into jeans and a shirt and I took her down the street to a 24-hour pancake place. We ate breakfast and found ourselves pulling into our driveway a little after midnight. As you all should know, that’s late for us, especially on a Thursday. We crawled into bed but did not go to sleep right away. As with the Red Cheeks Party, this night was also a long, drawn out bit of foreplay for us. I made MY LOVE lay back, helped her keep her legs spread wide open, and pounded her cervix so that I could watch her face contort with pain and pleasure. As exhausted as we both were, it was good sex, and the load I shot nailed her in the neck, shoulder and of course spread all over her chest and stomach. She was not allowed to wipe any of it off and actually slept with my dry cum all over her last night. As far as I know, it was still on her this morning when I fucked her pussy, while she “continued to sleep”. In fact, it’s probably on her right now, as she steps out into the garage to work out.
Sick fucking bitch!
So we should say “Thank You!” to Lew Rubens for using MY LOVE as one of his models and for allowing me to provide the music for the evening. We should also thank Julie Spanks, owner of the Conservatory for hosting the event and making us feel welcome. We met more people at this event than we have previously, which means people must be reading the blog and keeping track of us on FetLife. More and more we are seeing familiar faces and being greeted by people who we later find out are there almost solely to meet us. That’s been fun and we hope it continues. Everyone has been so cool!
Deacon X’s Fetish Night is Sunday…
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This is basically a reminder to everyone of where we will be tomorrow evening. We will be attending the “Monthly Bondage Play Party Featuring Lew Rubens”, which is taking place at the Conservatory. You can find out more information about this event, including the address of the dungeon, the cost of attendance, and all that by visiting www.theconservatorypdx.com
As stated before, I will be supplying the music for the evening and MY LOVE will be getting tied up by Lew Rubens for a little while. We'll be arriving at 7pm but the bondage doesn't probably start until after 8pm. There are apparently a bunch of people coming that are going to meet either myself or MY LOVE (or both of us) for the first time. Apparently there are even a couple of guys coming with interest in fucking MY CUNT. This should be an interesting evening.
Hope to see some of you there!
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I have a profile on Model Mayhem! www.modelmayhem.com/MyNameIsK
My Mayhem # is 1718804. The profile/member name I am using is “MyNameIsK” because this is not a strictly “Our Ruinous Love” kind of thing. It is more about me having the opportunity to make some money, and gain some more experience, modeling. I only have about six photos up, all from the Tommy Edwards shoot MY LOVE and I did a few years ago, but the great thing is I don’t look that much different. Maybe my hair is longer but I still have the ripped abs and the long, skinny torso. Overall, my body hasn’t changed much, so these pictures are still technically accurate. MY LOVE and I recently shot with an incredible photographer named Angel Priest, and I will be able to use some of the photos from that to diversify my Model Mayhem profile. It’s clear, right now, that I am a beginner.
I’m already getting friend requests and invitations to collaborate, but most of them are in different states. We do travel a lot, so there are certainly possibilities available to me now that I never even considered. I have to thank MY LOVE for really pushing me to do this. My attitude about how much men are desired in the adult industry was bleeding into other areas, when I should know better. Gay porn and magazines are still some of the highest selling forms of entertainment out there, and I’m not above doing some stuff for either of those categories/genres. I don’t really care if it’s men or women who are watching and getting off to me, as long as they are. Hell, I’m not above doing a scene or two with a guy if it comes to that. Call me a heteroflexible whore, but if it turns me on enough, and there’s money involved too, I’m going to go for it.
MY LOVE is on Model Mayhem as “Catherine de Sade” and her Mayhem # is 1579876. As you can imagine, her profile is amazing, and she has lots o’ friends and contacts. There are tons of photographers that are anxious to work with her. Who can blame them?
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Over the past three years I’ve traveled with MY LOVE to quite a few different cities in the U.S. so that she could work with some other adult-oriented companies. Most of them have been long-established, relatively successful businesses and caused us absolutely no problems. They were courteous and respectful, came through with whatever agreements they made and even treated me, the boyfriend, like I was welcome on the set. That is apparently a rarity for a lot of these companies.
There were a couple of companies, however, that weren’t so wonderful to work for/with. One individual set out, on the first day of shooting, to prove to his colleagues that he was no “Teddy Bear”. Apparently his style of BDSM seemed light or tame to some people he felt he needed to impress, and he figured he would use MY LOVE/Catherine de Sade to prove them wrong. Without anything remotely close to a warm-up he went after her thighs with wooden spoons. There’s more to share about that experience, believe me, but I’ll just leave it at that.
We finally received footage today from a different company we had a less than wonderful experience with. Part of the agreement to work with them was that MY LOVE would get copies of the video that was shot so that we could sell it on our site(s). The promise was made, but for months and months all we got were some high-quality photos from the shoot. No video. We were happy to have them, at the time, and understood there was some difficulty with the quality of the footage that they were trying to work out. Time went by and nothing seemed to get accomplished. MY LOVE would write to these people only to be reassured that they were working on it. What should have taken four months, max, took nearly a year and the results are less than wonderful.
The “Dom” in these videos is a man who claims to take “the lifestyle” seriously, but watching him you can see he doesn’t even know the first thing about it. He has no presence, no skills, and is basically the kind of guy who thinks taking a cane and whacking at a girl is how you dominate someone. Before they’d even begun filming he was trying to throw MY LOVE around, and wrestle with her while going through the scene. She made it clear, several times, that he needed to ease up – they weren’t shooting yet so it was fucking pointless – but the guy didn’t seem to want to listen. When she went off to use the restroom and he sat down and asked for my opinion I had absolutely no problem telling him that he needed to start opening his ears and respecting MY LOVE when she made it clear he was being too rough. There were several people sitting around us, and the room got suddenly quiet, but I am happy to say he was respectful and actually listened to what I was saying. He agreed with me, and when MY LOVE came back he seemed to have calmed down a little. Watching her shoot with him, you could see the look of irritation on her face. Editing the footage now, it’s even clearer. It was not a pleasant experience.
His partner in some of these films was just as bad. His idea of dominating a woman was to stand behind her and rub her nipples between his fingers like he was trying to tune in a difficult radio station. He also believed a glass dildo should be taken and just shoved in and out of a woman, over and over again, until told to stop. Like a machine. Watching both of these clowns was really painful, but having to wait all this time for footage that is virtually worthless was the final insult.
I’ve always said, “I’m not a Top or Dom or anything like that.” I don’t claim to know the first thing about the implements I wield, I don’t give two shits about trying to get women into subspace, and I definitely wouldn’t tell anyone I was part of the community or the lifestyle. If I did, I would probably feel a bit more responsible for my actions and a bit more cautious with how I presented myself to the world. As it is now, I make no apologies for doing exactly what I want, the way I want, and fuck everybody’s standards and expectations. And doing this, I put out a product that many people enjoy. I don’t know how well these people are doing with their businesses but I do know that we have absolutely no desire to work with them again. Perhaps calling it amateur hour is a bit harsh but that’s pretty much what I witnessed.
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