I guess the biggest bummer was the number of people that were in attendance. I think we waited to show up until nearly 11pm, but we probably didn’t stay a full two hours so maybe things picked up after that. As you know, that’s just too late for us. We’d heard this night was becoming popular but it can’t be a big deal every month I suppose. I’m sure we’ll give it another try someday soon.
MY LOVE and I went ready to show off in front of a bunch of strangers. I had a leather-bound case I carried with me that was full of things I was going to use to hurt her. Clothes pins, suction devices, two pair of pliers, mouse-traps, clamps and a bunch of heavy things to hang from the clamps, clothes pins and mouse traps. I also had condoms and was wearing a belt in case some fucking occurred. It was my intention to use it on MY LOVE while she got fucked, calling her a whore and other nasty things as I beat her. Alas, none of it happened.
I think we only had one drink, and spent the majority of our time conversing with a few select people. At no point did we feel inspired to get off our ass and find a place to begin playing. The energy was wrong. We wound up leaving to go home and fuck. This time around I don’t think we could even consider the time spent in the club foreplay. It just felt like we went out to have a drink with some friends. Next time we go we hope to make a bit more of an impression on a larger crowd.
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MY LOVE left at five o’clock this morning, headed to Canada to shoot for a couple of sites that specialize in some very interesting adult content. She is going to be asked to roll around in and wrestle with another girl in real, honest-to-goodness mud. This shoot will take place outside. She is also going to be plopped in real quicksand and filmed struggling in it as she sinks. No joke! And somewhere someone is jerking off to this. I understand getting off to a woman in distress but specifically almost drowning in quicksand? Fucking weird!
She’ll be gone for four days because she is driving. I won’t be going because I’m an ex-criminal and they don’t like my kind in their country. It’ll take the better part of a day to get where they are going and another to get back so that leaves two full days of shooting. Don’t know what else she’s got planned but those are the two main reasons to be there. This is less than a week after MY LOVE was in Los Angeles for a five-day visit, which sucks the big hard one. She’s home, and things are just getting back to normal and now it’s time for her to leave again. At least this time she’ll have some company because she is actually sharing the ride with the other female she is shooting the mud scene with. They are splitting the gas expense, among other things. So, she’ll have that distraction at least. I’m still stuck at home, all alone.
Boo Hoo.
The good news is, we have a four-day vacation on the coast coming up at the end of the month. It’ll be nice to have that time together, all to our selves. It seems like it’s been a while. I imagine we will utilize Skype during her trip up North, just like we did while she was in L.A. It really helped to be able to see each other. It allowed us to connect in a way that talking on the phone never has. It’s hard enough being away from each other but when we feel like we can’t even connect during that time it is really rough. Being able to see each other smile was absolutely wonderful. MY LOVE didn’t feel so far away. It made the time apart much easier so I’m sure we’re going to do it again this time. Five days, four days or even just one day apart is just a miserable experience for both of us. Getting into an empty bed at night is strange and depressing, and waking up to it empty is no picnic either. The harsh reality is we will probably have to face much more time apart in the future, as I will not be lucky enough to be able to accompany MY LOVE on every trip she takes. Skyping each other, as far as we can tell, is going to help during those tough times a great deal.
I’ll have more information about who MY LOVE is shooting with in Canada soon, and will put it up for you in case you are one of those freaks who’d jerk off to a woman almost drowning in quicksand. Sicko perverts…
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MY LOVE writes:
***I am so behind in blogging that the only place to begin is right in the middle!!
Big NEWS!! I have an agent now!! I am VERY excited as he also represents NINA F***ing HARTLEY!!!! You can find me here: www.vangardtalent.com/talent
Just got back from a quick trip to Los Angeles – exciting, disappointing, and HOT! Exciting because I had a GREAT shoot with Dungeon Corp – my third time shooting with them – had a BLAST!! The Dom for the day was unable to make it due to food poisoning so JP – The POPE himself – decided to take me on and wait till you see the results. Look for updates on strictrestraint.com soon. I will be shooting with them again in August – this time for fuckingdungeon.com. Yes the name implies the activity and should be quite fun.
Also – the day before DC shoot, I had an afternoon with the devilish, sexy Venus DeMila. This lady is HOT HOT HOT and she wasted no time showing me who was in charge. I know I have said before that I am not “into” girls – but I am into power, and she wielded it masterfully. Keep an eye on www.VenusDeMila.com for updates. I will tell you one thing – the cock she used on me is nicknamed Godzilla. Let your imaginations run wild ☺
Then onto the RevMel show! www.tsrnetwork.com Not certain how many of you got to tune in and enjoy but the 2 hours passed very quickly. I was quite nervous at the beginning and I could see how red my neck and face was on the camera. But once we got going things settled down a bit and my heart rate receded to a normal level once again. Rev had a bit of a sore throat so had to keep sucking on lozenges but was otherwise in top form. I was honored that BigDaddyBD www.fetlife.com/users/327157 and Ivan Beast www.fetlife.com/users/241084 took time to come to the show and be part of the audience. In fact they tried to kidnap me at the end! Thankfully my microphone got stuck. These two have and amazing product line of kinky furnishings that is worth taking a look at! They are just getting up and running so you can view images through FetLife.
The worst part of my trip was that K/MY MAN did not come with me. Just not economically possible this trip, and separation for us is always difficult. HOWEVER – we did finally set up Skype on both our computers and boy did that help. I loved the anticipation of him ringing me up. Seeing MY MAN made the distance seem shorter. What the hell did we wait so long for?!? K picked me up at the airport and had a gift bag waiting for in the car – such a sweetie! Inside the bag was a CD of love songs (and a few other songs I enjoy) he had put together, a container of Sour Straws (makes my mouth pucker), caramel popcorn with a bit of chocolate that I have been wanting to try, a card and rose petals!!! When we got home there we 5 MORE CARDS at different places around our house, sour pops in the freezer AND rose petals all over our bed! I love being in love! The love MY MAN showers on me seems never ending… I feel utterly adored as his mate, his girl, his hole. What a lethal and heady combination.***
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MY LOVE and I consider Lew Rubens a good friend. She has known him quite a bit longer than I have but I can honestly say we enjoy his company, energy, wit and demeanor. The man is a genius with rope, has no problem giving extremely helpful and valuable advice, and is just an all around good guy in my opinion. Love ya’ Lew!
If you are reading this post, chances are you’ve come over from FetLife by following a link. Below you will find what is basically a cry for help. Lew Rubens had some very valuable things stolen from him and we hope you are here reading this because you love and admire the man as much as we do, and want to help him out. Please read on:
“On July 1st 2010, Lew Rubens, known around the world for his amazing bondage and suspensions, gave his first ever Art Exhibit in Portland, Oregon. It was a huge success.
Lew was scheduled to leave bright and early the next morning to begin “Trailer Trash Tour IV”. After leaving his going away party, Lew returned to find his vehicle had been broken into. His entire bag of bondage ropes had been stolen, along with his large portfolio of photos, documenting his years of professional experience.
This is our chance to show Lew how much we appreciate the positive impact he has had in the BDSM community. If you’ve ever had the opportunity to be tied by Lew, if you’ve ever learned a useful tie from one of his workshops, or if you just enjoy seeing Lew’s work, this is your chance to give a little something back!
Let's get a new set of rope in Lew’s hands soon!
Here are the specifics:
Renaissance Rope in Portland Oregon will be custom dying and creating 600 ft of rope especially for Lew Rubens.
Stuart (aka Pdxropedom on Fetlife) has graciously offered up the first $200 towards the cost of making the rope.
This is an amazing offer and it only leaves us to raise $400 between like 40,000 of us!
If we can reach this goal by the end of July, we might be able to have Lew’s new rope in his evil grip by mid August, just in time for the Lewbari Weekend in Sonoma!
We would also like to help Lew get his portfolio rebuilt. The high quality color prints will most likely come to about $300. Any funds over and above the $400 mark will be used towards recreating that portfolio.
Donations are being accepted through Paypal – lewrubensropereplacementfund @ gmail.com
For more information or to send a check or money order, write to – lewrubensropereplacementfund @ gmail.com.”
I want to say, right now, that what you see written above was put together by a very special friend of Lew's. What you see below comes from me, and me only.
I’ve looked at Lew’s profile on FetLife. He has, at this moment, 1570 “friends”. If only a third of those “friends” would take the time to donate the paltry sum of $2.00 the man we all call friend would have more than enough money to get new rope, replenish his entire portfolio and have it all shipped to him, with a little left over. Who among you, reading this right now, cannot afford $2.00? Seriously. And think of what would happen if some of us decided not to have that cup of ridiculously over-priced coffee today and sent that off to Lew. Do you have it in you to do this simple thing for a man who really deserves it?
That’s all me folks. Lew Rubens isnt’ saying it, and neither is Lew's special friend. I am. Call it a guilt trip or call it a challenge, as long as we get this taken care of I don’t care how you feel about me. Please take a moment and lend a hand.
Lew, we wish you the best. If there is more that we can do, just say it.
K and Catherine de Sade
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One of the shoots MY LOVE did a few days ago, while she was in L.A., involved the gorgeous Venus De Mila. The three photos you see below were taken by our photographer friend Smudger, who now goes by Liquiderotica. When he gets his site up we will definitely be letting all of you know about it.
According to MY LOVE, it was a very sexy shoot. She said, and I quote: “You would have spent a lot of time with your cock in your hand.” If these first three pictures are any indication I have no doubt she is correct. Liquiderotica is definitely a meticulous and talented photographer so we will be sharing any new stuff with you as we get it. Believe that!
I missed an opportunity to see Liquiderotica again, but as I’ve stated before we hope to BOTH be back in California soon, working on some sort of adult gig and then I will get to see him. I also missed the chance to meet Venus De Mila, and apparently Nina Hartley and Earnest Greene have spoken enough about me that she was actually anticipating meeting me. Another reason to be grumpy about not making the trip with MY LOVE this time around. Aaargh! We WILL be back and I WILL get to see both of these wonderful people soon I hope.
If you would like to see Venus De Mila’s site:
www.venusdemila.com
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