Our Ruinous Love Blog - A deviant Love Story2010-07-29T18:32:39ZORL Inc.Copyright 2010, ORL Inc.SPHPBLOGLincoln City - mini vacation The place we are staying in has a real wood-burning fireplace so I’ve been downstairs chopping kindling and doing my manly job of building a fire. MY LOVE has been lazing about reading, watching movies with me, and feeling giddy because we are simply spending so much uninterrupted time together. The sex has been wonderful and intense, the shopping fantastic and the overall experience relaxing and luxurious so far. The days always start very cold and overcast but by the afternoon we have plenty of sun, and it’s nice when it gets cold at night because that means I have to build another fire.
We’ve been for a walk on the beach, and today we drove to the Chinook Winds golf course so we could use the gym that is attached to it. It was either that or try to do something at the place we’re staying, which just wasn’t nearly as appealing. I’m all for going for a run out on the beach but that doesn’t work the upper body much. That’s what I’m concentrating on. MY LOVE is out in the gym right now, doing some cardio and I’m in the men’s locker room plugged into a socket so the computer can recharge. It turns out we don’t have internet at the house so we have to go somewhere that has wireless available. It’s not really a pain as we didn’t intend to spend much time on the computer. In fact, I don’t think we’ll be getting on tomorrow, at all, as it is our last day.
Tonight I am going to give MY LOVE a sensual, all-over massage and see where that leads. Our first day here we purchased bubble bath so that may be happening tonight. Possibly tomorrow. I know we plan on shooting a scene or two before we leave tomorrow evening and I am excited about that. I brought plenty to hurt her with and just today we purchased a couple more wicked and wonderful items. Maybe I’ll put the cameras up when we do that bubble bath…
We are having a wonderful time reconnecting and just enjoying this free time together. No real schedule, nothing specific to really accomplish, no stress or worries. We really need to do this more often!]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100728-1637592010-07-28T00:00:00Z2010-07-28T00:00:00Zthe beach I am taking our video cameras and plenty of toys, implements and other unmentionables so that we can do a little bit of “work” while we are there. Yesterday I officially ran out of footage to edit and desperately need some new stuff. It’s difficult to let the opportunity to shoot in a new space pass by. I feel like we’ve shot every angle in our townhouse twice already. The good weather inspires me to try some shooting outdoors but MY LOVE has very fair skin and there’s always the chance of us getting caught doing something totally illegal. If we just had a lookout sometimes…
These few days will probably be filled with a lot of books, movies, food and sex. I know we’re going to be fine doing this for about a day or so and then our bodies will start to ache for exercise. I don’t exactly have a specific plan for motivating MY LOVE and I to find ways to satisfy this urge, but I am determined to try. It will be a lot easier in August, when we are traveling all over the place because we’ll likely be spending time in hotels, and they always seem to have a gym. Sometimes even a pool. Now more than ever we need to maintain whatever diet and exercise plan we’ve got going. The jobs we have in August could very well determine how the rest of the year goes for us. But I’m off the subject of our vacation.
We spend so much time together, at home, but we are both occupied and distracted with work and other daily worries. It’s been a rough switch but if the rewards are the success I see coming for MY LOVE I think it’s worth it. This will be the first time in a very long time that we’ll be able to spend uninterrupted hours together. We need it badly. To reconnect and relax. We are both very excited.
Don’t know what internet access is like so I don’t know if you’ll hear from us or not. There will certainly be pictures and things to tell you about. There always is…]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100726-0914462010-07-26T00:00:00Z2010-07-26T00:00:00ZBDSM Pride Day - Rev Mel Show appearance
Saturday, July 24th was BDSM Pride Day. To acknowledge and celebrate this MY LOVE and I made a brief web-cam appearance on the Rev Mel Show. Sitting together in our office chairs, we tuned in about fifteen minutes before we were supposed to make our call, to see how things were going. I admit to being a little nervous for some reason – we were being broadcast live but it should have felt no different than when MY LOVE was on her show a couple weeks ago and I called in on the phone. The only thing I knew for sure that was going to come out of my mouth was “Happy BDSM Pride Day”. After that I didn’t have a clue.
I remember Rev Mel asking us what we had planned for the day, to celebrate it. Thankfully MY LOVE was a bit quicker than I in responding because the truth was, we had nothing planned. She just got back from Canada a couple days ago and we’ve both been so busy that our only plans were to work, eat, exercise, spend some precious time together, appear on the Rev Mel show and work. In fact, she’d just gotten home from boot camp and a pussy waxing and we were sort of seeing each other for the first time that day. So MY LOVE came up with something really quick and I imagine we didn’t look like total idiots because of it. Thanks honey!
What led up to it I can’t quite recall, but there was a point when our appearance hit that “Show us her ass!” section. Rev Mel and everyone watching had already received gratuitous shots of me lifting up MY LOVE’s shirt to expose and fondle her breasts, as well as some sensuous kissing and what not, so I was quite happy to oblige. Situating MY LOVE over my knee so that the camera would get a good shot of her behind, I even gave it a couple quick whacks for their viewing pleasure. I half expected Rev Mel to ask me to show off my cock and she did not let me down. Now, I wasn’t sitting there aroused, nor was I just going to be able to stand up and instantly get hard. What can I say I guess I’m not as much of an exhibitionist as I would like to be. Not that I mind showing off, I just don’t get hard like a little boy running around naked for his first time. I haven’t obtained an erection just by taking my pants off since my days of dropping trou and running around naked in Central Oregon. So when Rev Mel asked to see my cock I had it in the back of my head that I was probably just going to decline. Then inspiration struck.
We were set up in our office, using my computer to appear on the show. Not four feet from my side of the communal desk is a closet door and behind that door is cock. I stood up and walked off camera like I was going to pull out my wang and I could hear Rev Mel getting excited. MY LOVE saw that I was actually getting into the closet and pulling out the Jamaican statue with the large wooden cock so she sat back and played along nicely, telling me in a seductive voice to whip my dick out. The cock on the Jamaican statue detaches, so I pulled it free and unzipped my fly so that I could nestle it in there and go back on camera. I guess it was pretty clear, right away, that it wasn’t my cock I was holding in my hand.
Stepping back out of camera view I next grabbed the HUGE wooden cock we found while in Hawaii. Placing this in front of my crotch I stepped back so that everyone could see. MY LOVE said something like “Oh yes, that’s the one I like. Bring that here.” As I stepped closer she opened wide to try and get the enormous head inside her mouth. Suddenly I was pulling various other phallic objects from the closet and showing them off. There was the ashtray with the penis roosting on it’s edge, the statue of the hand with it’s index and middle finger prominently raised and crossed, the gigantic red butt plug and I don’t remember what else. We tried to explain that when other people travel they go shopping for cheap jewelry or trinkets but we are on the lookout for cock. So far wooden cock has been the most plentiful, and affordable, but we’ve seen some wonderful stone and marble pieces we’d like to own some day.
You know, I don’t remember much more about the time we spent on the show. It was fun, I can tell you that! It sure didn’t feel like it, but I think we were on for thirty minutes or so. The time went by quick! We are scheduled to be in the studio during our trip to L.A. in August and I am very excited about that. Unfortunately we won’t be THE main guests but at least I’ll finally get to officially be ON the show/set. Looking forward to meeting Rev Mel and her gang too!
Thanks to Rev Mel for having us on her show once again!
Happy BDSM Pride Day!]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100725-0716012010-07-25T00:00:00Z2010-07-25T00:00:00ZStrict Restraint - July 2010
MY LOVE/Catherine de Sade is on Strict Restraint again! Here's what they have written on their site:
"MILF wonder girl is back...Catherine Desade...and she's as hard-bodied as ever...another natural power player, Catherine has been thinking BDSM thoughts for a long time...and today is a treat for her because she gets to live them with the Pope...When these two get together, it's typically pretty intense and this day doesnt disappoint...Catherine gets a rigid spread, complete with frontal reddening...then bent over for some cane stripes and a magic wand stuffed in her cunt...literally...note to self and others...removing the head of a magic wand from one's cunt is often as interesting as stuffing it in...Enjoy"
It read: “Here’s a helpful technique for managing stress during difficult times: First, get one of those glass snow domes with a happy little snowman and an idyllic, peaceful winter scene.”
Inside, the punch line was: “Next, get a hammer…”.
Underneath this, MY LOVE wrote “and shove it in your girlfriend’s pussy!” It was one of those just for the hell of it cards, and to my surprise another one was waiting for me when I got down to my office. A lovely way to start the day!
The card inspired me. When MY LOVE got home she found me waiting with a hammer in one hand and a condom in the other. Of course she had to go pee first, but shortly after I was instructing her to get on the living room floor, on her back. Naked, and a bit sweaty from her workout, she lay back and let me fuck her with the condom-covered handle of the hammer. I was already aroused, and ready to fuck, but this really got me excited. Something about fucking her with strange things does it for me. A perfect example is the big, black flashlight we sometimes use. I love fucking her with that thing and I always get excited doing it.
Fucking her with the handle of the hammer had the desired effect. Soon I was rock hard and ready to get in on the action. Instead of taking the handle out I decided to push in next to it, and boy was it a strange sensation. I admittedly fuck her pussy with a lot of odd objects in there but each one of them has a unique feel. My particular favorite is a pair of glass rods that are normally used to stir drinks with. They stay in at all times, are just the right size and the fact that they are glass gives them a magnificent texture to rub up against. The condom-covered handle of the hammer was not so pleasant, but I still fucked the hell out of MY LOVE while it was in there. We were actually on the floor for quite a while, often staring into each other’s eyes as I pounded away. Hurting her like this has become quite a wonderful and regular experience. She claims her left ovary is often sore from the abuse it takes but I think she’s just trying to stroke my ego…
The power of suggestion is mighty!]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100723-1611472010-07-23T00:00:00Z2010-07-23T00:00:00Zfill you
fill you
This time there’s no mistaking that desperate look in your eyes Is it your life you’re thinking of taking?
What can I do?
It’s clear your resistance is breaking Is it this life you’ve come to despise? This decision you’re thinking of making
Will it help you?
Another day with me, will you stay with me And try? If you stay with me I promise you will be Fine And if things don’t work out, you can still get out Get free But you’ll never make it out of this act you’re thinking about Please
Reconsider it
This time there’s no escaping the love for you that I feel inside This hole in your heart that is gaping
We recently started releasing a series of movies/clips called “Domestic Abuse”. At the moment, I think we are up to number four. In these scenes, MY LOVE is dressed in lingerie or some other sexy outfit, and made to do some pretty normal household tasks. Things like dusting, ironing a shirt, vacuuming the stairs and making the bed. Often she is bound or hindered in some way so that these simple tasks are not so easy to accomplish. As you’ll see from the photos above and below, we’re trying to get a little creative with these videos.
MY LOVE and I have been working on this together. For months now she has joked about me filming her while she irons my shirts – a job she does not normally enjoy. They will slowly pile up and then one day she’ll decide it’s time to iron them all. Usually she’ll put a movie in so that there is something distracting happening in the background. Our intention was really to just do this one scene, and that was it. The first one turned out so good that we decided to come up with a few more and make a series out of them. So we started thinking about what other household chores she could do while dressed in sexy clothes, and hindered in one or more ways from completing her task. It has been a blast!
Domestic Abuse #2
At this point, “Domestic Abuse #1, #2 and #3” are all available on Clips4Sale, and in our own Clips store on this site. “Domestic Abuse #4” will be coming out at the end of this week, and then MY LOVE and I will be at the beach on a little vacation! During that time we will probably be doing some filming, as I have run out of footage to edit. Perhaps there will be more domestic abuse but I have a feeling we’ll be shooting other stuff too. When asked for ideas MY LOVE said she’d like to film something called “Ass Mangler”. After the abuse that hole got during our last Happy Butthole Day I’m surprised to hear her suggest it. The cunt couldn’t shit for a day.
Here’s the direct link to the Clips4Sale store, should you decide you’d like to go check out the 10 second previews they have on there: www.clips4sale.com/studio/17171
Domestic Abuse #3
We’d prefer you came back here, to our site, and made any purchases through our Clips page instead of through C4S but in the end it doesn’t really matter. Both Clips4Sale and Surfnet take 40% of our sales. The biggest difference is that we generally sell our clips here for less than we do on Clips4Sale. Surprisingly that doesn’t stop people from buying $100 worth from C4S and totally ignoring the fact that they could have saved $15-$20 by purchasing them straight from us. I guess people who can blow $100 on porn probably don’t care about saving that money. Wish I could be that way…
“Domestic Abuse” is available now, for your viewing pleasure.]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100721-1047252010-07-21T00:00:00Z2010-07-21T00:00:00ZFirst Twisted Party at Club Sesso I guess the biggest bummer was the number of people that were in attendance. I think we waited to show up until nearly 11pm, but we probably didn’t stay a full two hours so maybe things picked up after that. As you know, that’s just too late for us. We’d heard this night was becoming popular but it can’t be a big deal every month I suppose. I’m sure we’ll give it another try someday soon.
MY LOVE and I went ready to show off in front of a bunch of strangers. I had a leather-bound case I carried with me that was full of things I was going to use to hurt her. Clothes pins, suction devices, two pair of pliers, mouse-traps, clamps and a bunch of heavy things to hang from the clamps, clothes pins and mouse traps. I also had condoms and was wearing a belt in case some fucking occurred. It was my intention to use it on MY LOVE while she got fucked, calling her a whore and other nasty things as I beat her. Alas, none of it happened.
I think we only had one drink, and spent the majority of our time conversing with a few select people. At no point did we feel inspired to get off our ass and find a place to begin playing. The energy was wrong. We wound up leaving to go home and fuck. This time around I don’t think we could even consider the time spent in the club foreplay. It just felt like we went out to have a drink with some friends. Next time we go we hope to make a bit more of an impression on a larger crowd.]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100720-1924302010-07-21T00:00:00Z2010-07-21T00:00:00ZO' Canada She’ll be gone for four days because she is driving. I won’t be going because I’m an ex-criminal and they don’t like my kind in their country. It’ll take the better part of a day to get where they are going and another to get back so that leaves two full days of shooting. Don’t know what else she’s got planned but those are the two main reasons to be there. This is less than a week after MY LOVE was in Los Angeles for a five-day visit, which sucks the big hard one. She’s home, and things are just getting back to normal and now it’s time for her to leave again. At least this time she’ll have some company because she is actually sharing the ride with the other female she is shooting the mud scene with. They are splitting the gas expense, among other things. So, she’ll have that distraction at least. I’m still stuck at home, all alone.
Boo Hoo.
The good news is, we have a four-day vacation on the coast coming up at the end of the month. It’ll be nice to have that time together, all to our selves. It seems like it’s been a while. I imagine we will utilize Skype during her trip up North, just like we did while she was in L.A. It really helped to be able to see each other. It allowed us to connect in a way that talking on the phone never has. It’s hard enough being away from each other but when we feel like we can’t even connect during that time it is really rough. Being able to see each other smile was absolutely wonderful. MY LOVE didn’t feel so far away. It made the time apart much easier so I’m sure we’re going to do it again this time. Five days, four days or even just one day apart is just a miserable experience for both of us. Getting into an empty bed at night is strange and depressing, and waking up to it empty is no picnic either. The harsh reality is we will probably have to face much more time apart in the future, as I will not be lucky enough to be able to accompany MY LOVE on every trip she takes. Skyping each other, as far as we can tell, is going to help during those tough times a great deal.
I’ll have more information about who MY LOVE is shooting with in Canada soon, and will put it up for you in case you are one of those freaks who’d jerk off to a woman almost drowning in quicksand. Sicko perverts…]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100719-1623452010-07-19T00:00:00Z2010-07-19T00:00:00Zbusy girl ***I am so behind in blogging that the only place to begin is right in the middle!!
Big NEWS!! I have an agent now!! I am VERY excited as he also represents NINA F***ing HARTLEY!!!! You can find me here: www.vangardtalent.com/talent
Just got back from a quick trip to Los Angeles – exciting, disappointing, and HOT! Exciting because I had a GREAT shoot with Dungeon Corp – my third time shooting with them – had a BLAST!! The Dom for the day was unable to make it due to food poisoning so JP – The POPE himself – decided to take me on and wait till you see the results. Look for updates on strictrestraint.com soon. I will be shooting with them again in August – this time for fuckingdungeon.com. Yes the name implies the activity and should be quite fun.
Also – the day before DC shoot, I had an afternoon with the devilish, sexy Venus DeMila. This lady is HOT HOT HOT and she wasted no time showing me who was in charge. I know I have said before that I am not “into” girls – but I am into power, and she wielded it masterfully. Keep an eye on www.VenusDeMila.com for updates. I will tell you one thing – the cock she used on me is nicknamed Godzilla. Let your imaginations run wild ☺
Then onto the RevMel show! www.tsrnetwork.com Not certain how many of you got to tune in and enjoy but the 2 hours passed very quickly. I was quite nervous at the beginning and I could see how red my neck and face was on the camera. But once we got going things settled down a bit and my heart rate receded to a normal level once again. Rev had a bit of a sore throat so had to keep sucking on lozenges but was otherwise in top form. I was honored that BigDaddyBD www.fetlife.com/users/327157 and Ivan Beast www.fetlife.com/users/241084 took time to come to the show and be part of the audience. In fact they tried to kidnap me at the end! Thankfully my microphone got stuck. These two have and amazing product line of kinky furnishings that is worth taking a look at! They are just getting up and running so you can view images through FetLife.
The worst part of my trip was that K/MY MAN did not come with me. Just not economically possible this trip, and separation for us is always difficult. HOWEVER – we did finally set up Skype on both our computers and boy did that help. I loved the anticipation of him ringing me up. Seeing MY MAN made the distance seem shorter. What the hell did we wait so long for?!? K picked me up at the airport and had a gift bag waiting for in the car – such a sweetie! Inside the bag was a CD of love songs (and a few other songs I enjoy) he had put together, a container of Sour Straws (makes my mouth pucker), caramel popcorn with a bit of chocolate that I have been wanting to try, a card and rose petals!!! When we got home there we 5 MORE CARDS at different places around our house, sour pops in the freezer AND rose petals all over our bed! I love being in love! The love MY MAN showers on me seems never ending… I feel utterly adored as his mate, his girl, his hole. What a lethal and heady combination.***]]>http://www.ruinouslove.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry100717-0952272010-07-17T00:00:00Z2010-07-17T00:00:00Z
