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      • 3-D photography and bondage demonstration - Lew Rubens
        06/30/10
        We're back from Seattle. Maybe MY LOVE will put up a post soon about what she did, and where the results might eventually show up. Apparently things went so well she has already been offered two gigs next month. Pretty exciting!

        Tomorrow night – Thursday, July 1st – MY LOVE and I

      • Seattle to hump stuff
        06/30/10
        It is 6 a.m. and we are about to drive to Seattle so that MY LOVE can shoot with a company that is going to pay her to hump things. You are going to laugh – she’s supposed to be the “girl/lady next door” type, who you’d think wouldn’t do anything strange or kinky. Ha ha ha! Not that there isn’t a

      • Ron Jeremy's Club Sesso
        06/29/10


        Saturday evening we went to Ron Jeremy’s Club Sesso to meet the man himself. Actually, we went for a lot more than that, but you’ll have to be patient until I get there. Our entry fee for the evening, as well as the renewal of our memberships, was taken care of by a very generous frien

      • Choke the Bitch - stood up
        06/23/10
        I was supposed to get the opportunity to shoot a scene with MY LOVE today where I would, among other things, get to choke her while I fucked her. This appeared to be a semi-professional gig that she found on Craigslist, but it is now almost 90 minutes past the time we were supposed to meet the gent

      • fIXE magazine
        06/22/10


        MY LOVE/Catherine de Sade recently did an interview for fIXE magazine. You can see a few familiar pictures, and the interview here - www.fixemagazine.com/post.php?postid=637

        Enjoy another look into her brain!

      • DXFN - June 2010
        06/21/10
        We had another great time at Deacon X’s Fetish Night last night. For the first time in a couple months the music seemed to be consistently good, the place was full of people and we saw TONS of faces we recognized. I swear half the folks we met at Red Cheeks last week were there, as well as some ne

      • Only in America
        06/20/10
        MY LOVE writes:

        ***Haven't written in a while - just busy with life and work and family - so time to jump right back in with a blurb from "The Week" magazine.

        A Michigan woman without health insurance shot herself to get medical attention. Kathy Myers, 41, says s

      • Deacon X's Fetish Night - June 20, 2010
        06/19/10


        That's tomorrow night, and we are going to be there. Not performing, just boozing, dancing and socializing. Making new friends. Seeing old ones. That whole routine.

        Right now, it's Saturday, and we're so lame that it's not even 10pm yet and we are both

      • corrections department - "dad's day"
        06/18/10
        Last Sunday I revealed to all of you that I have a daughter. I did this because I thought that it was Father's Day. I think I even mentioned I was posting because of the holiday. Well, someone pointed out to me the other night that Father's Day is actually this weekend. I just want to

      • The Bondage Play Party w/Lew Rubens - report
        06/18/10
        When we arrived at the Conservatory last night Lew Rubens was already getting set up. While he spoke with MY LOVE about what they would be doing I did my best to troubleshoot a couple of minor problems with the sound system. Soon the dungeon was filled with music and the guests were coming in and

      • Lew's Bondage Play Party - reminder
        06/16/10
        This is basically a reminder to everyone of where we will be tomorrow evening. We will be attending the “Monthly Bondage Play Party Featuring Lew Rubens”, which is taking place at the Conservatory. You can find out more information about this event, including the address of the dungeon, the cost o

      • Model Mayhem
        06/15/10


        I have a profile on Model Mayhem! www.modelmayhem.com/MyNameIsK



        My Mayhem # is 1718804. The profile/member name I am using is “MyNameIsK” because this is not a strictly “Our Ruinous Love” kind of thing. It is more about me having the opportunity to make some money

      • amateur hour
        06/15/10
        Over the past three years I’ve traveled with MY LOVE to quite a few different cities in the U.S. so that she could work with some other adult-oriented companies. Most of them have been long-established, relatively successful businesses and caused us absolutely no problems. They were courteous and

      • Red Cheeks
        06/14/10
        The “Red Cheeks Club Play Party” we went to on Saturday was a pleasant experience. As promised, it was more of a social gathering than anything, but there was plenty of space to play and plenty of people openly doing what made them happy. MY LOVE and I utilized a couple of the rooms before we left

      • dad's day
        06/13/10
        It is Father’s Day, so I guess it would be appropriate for me to reveal that I am actually the father of a nearly 17-year-old daughter who lives with her mother in Nevada. I haven’t been in contact with either of them for the past 15 years, which makes me a pretty bad dad I guess. Personally, I th

      • fun
        06/12/10
        We will be attending the “Red Cheeks Club Play Party” tonight in Hillsboro, Oregon. This will be a new event/space for MY LOVE and I to explore, and possibly make some new friends. It is apparently more of a social gathering and less of a play space however, there should be ample opportunities. M

      • bored at work
        06/09/10
        A certain beautiful little something has been talking to and flirting with MY LOVE on FetLife for quite some time apparently. Today I got a message from this lovely lady. She called it “a quick idea”.

        “i had a very naughty idea today while bored at my desk at work. here it goes
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      • changes, they are a comin'
        06/08/10
        I sold my drum seta couple of days ago. Actually, I’m trading it for a bunch of weed but whatever. The original plan was to sell it and use the money to fix a malfunctioning computer fan on MY LOVE’s tower so that I could start trying to record some music in our office. As it turns out, the recor

      • 4 in 12
        06/07/10
        It’s been a while since I wrote about a day where I had a big bunch of orgasms. What better way to start the week, I’m thinking, than to read about some guy getting off multiple times by using his whore of a girlfriend? I dare someone to complain.

        It started around midnight, two nights

      • advice?
        06/04/10
        I have a word document that sits on my computer called UPDATES. Basically, it’s where I compose the majority of my blog posts, so there are a lot of unfinished rants, descriptions of sexual depravity and admissions of guilt there. Often, when I decide to answer e-mail with more than a few sentence

      • who you really are
        06/03/10
        I am not a “Dom” or a “Master”. At times I would have to identify as a “Top” because I don’t “bottom” to anyone, or have those tendencies. Hating labels, but knowing they are necessary to ease communication, I can say I am “dominant”, a “top”, “heteroflexible” and in an “open” relationship. I do

      • Monthly Bondage Play Party Featuring Lew Rubens
        06/02/10
        I’ve worked in the adult business, in one form or another, for as much of my adult life as I could. My jobs have varied from simple things like clerking at porn shops to bartending and DJing at strip clubs. I’ve also managed those same porn shops while trying to put together things like Fetish Par

      • Tuesday 6-1-2010
        06/01/10
        Yesterday was Monday, but it was also a holiday, so I did what everyone else did – or wished they could do – and took the day off. Didn’t do one minute of video editing, didn’t shoot any new footage or even put up a blog post. Last Monday I skipped my usual blah about movies/books and shared with

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